Mötley Crüe drummer Tommy Lee’s wife Brittany Furlan Lee shared a new social media post to celebrate Tommy’s 64th birthday, and her post included a hilarious message to women hitting on Tommy by sending him messages in his DMs on social media.
Brittany Furlan Lee wrote in the caption of her post: “Happy bday to the big dawg.”
Brittany Furlan Lee also wrote within her post: “Y’all in his dm’s and I’m on his nerves. We are not the same.”
Tommy Lee reacted to his wife Brittany’s birthday post: “I f*cking love you babe….. you’re my Wing to my Wang….wait!…I mean Youre my ying to my yang!”
The joke lands differently when you know how long the couple has been together, because Furlan and Lee have been a public item for nearly a decade. Lee and Furlan met on the celebrity dating app Raya in 2017, got engaged on Valentine’s Day in 2018, and married on Feb. 14, 2019. The same outlet reported that the two first connected through the app and kept things moving from there.
Furlan has spoken openly about how the relationship started. She recalled her first impression of Lee by saying, “I matched with him and he was just so persistent.” That persistence, she has said, is part of how the pair went from a dating app match to marriage.
Furlan built a following of her own long before she married a rock star. She is a comedian and internet personality best known for her viral content on Vine, where she became one of the platform’s most followed female creators. She has remained active as a public-facing content creator and entertainer since Vine shut down.
Her profile carried real weight at the height of her Vine years. She once reigned as the queen of Vine, a distinction that earned her a spot on Time’s 2015 list of the 30 most influential people on the internet, an honor she shared with figures including Taylor Swift, Barack Obama, and Kim Kardashian.
The couple has also stayed in the headlines for reasons that have nothing to do with jokes. Reports of trouble between them circulated in 2025 after a catfish saga involving Furlan, and Lee later dismissed the split talk by calling it “Fake News” and saying the two were not separated or divorced.
Lee, who was born on Oct. 3, 1962, turned 64 this year, and the birthday tribute arrived amid continued public attention on his personal life. Lee remains one of Mötley Crüe’s best-known figures, and interest in the couple has continued to follow both his career and his marriage.
